UPDATE as of November 19, 2013: I am currently unable to take on new clients.


If you’ve got a sex or relationship issue, let’s kick it to the curb! I am the Nancy Drew of your sex life. If you’d like me to help you solve some puzzles in your personal life, feel free to send me an email!

SKYPE or IN PERSON: Far away? No worries, we can video skype. If you are in the Los Angeles area or would like to provide travel expenses, we can talk in person.

TIME: One session is between 60 – 90 minutes.

COST: My sessions are priced reasonably & on a sliding scale.

Just email me what you’d like to focus on and your location and I’ll send you info on rates and scheduling.

***Please note, I am not a therapist. I focus on tools for the present. If I see that you may need an in-depth counselor, I will help try and link you with the right counselor.

18 thoughts on “Coaching

  1. Hi Sandra I love your podcast it’s hilarious and your open approach to sexuality makes me so horny I find myself masturbating sometimes while listening I’m listening..Please tell me your thoughts on this type of behavior,I mean I have alot of sex but I guess it’s the content of your podcast and the way u present it,just gets my goose going!! please lemme know your thoughts,
    Always Hard in Hamden,Ct

      1. Lol, a decent amount of people might do this from time to time. You can only her a sexy story for so long, and then it goes back into informative style most of the time. I’ve started maybe twice then had to go back after to finish listening lmao.

    1. I teach workshops at The Pleasure Chest in Los Angeles. I also teach at private parties, colleges, etc. It’s all about who asks me to teach. You can like my page on Facebook or follow me on twitter to keep up with where I’ll be teaching next.

  2. Hi I love the show and its helped me in my new relationship, but my girlfriend is wonderful and open to almost anything but she doesn’t wanna give head but its my favorite thing. She gave the best Bj I ever got, its was once in the shower but never again. I go down on her any time she wants, up to 5 times a day. She loves it and its the only way she can orgasm. What can I do to get her to do it for me?

  3. It’s great that you’re available for sex coaching over Skype. Now, I just need to find a Skype coach so I can figure out how the hell that works? 🙂

  4. Jello !, for the past 3 to 4 days I have been looking for a adult workshop to take my vanilla wife but for some reason its impossible to find her in south Florida. I was curious if you had any ideas that could help me with my problem. ( associates in Florida, video, etc. )

  5. Hi Sandra,

    I know you’re super busy, but I was wondering if you could give me an idea of when/if I might hear back from you about coaching. I’ve sent a couple of emails. If you can’t do it, it’s fine, but if that’s the case, would you mind recommending one of your guests/friends/colleagues who also dabbles in coaching?

    Thanks so much!

  6. I love your podcast, and I listen to it all day with my headphones on. I just listened to the queefing part of the erogenous zones cast. I agree, it’s so bad that girls do that! Why do we have a hole in which air loves to travel in and out of?! Any who, keep doing your thing and know that you inspire me to host a podcast in the future and hopefully get into sexual therapy, etc. Love your voice as well!!!
    College Sex Freak-Boulder, Colorado.

  7. SD! I have been Assexual for most of my 38 years, mainly from from a very unhealthy background in Church. This podcast has helped free and encourage me:).

    I would love to talk more about Assexuality i u have time as i’ve two decades of experience within religion and deep thought about this issue as I left religion for a brighter future:). Happy!

  8. Hi. Could you give me some tips on how to relax more during sex and how to outwardly show enthusiasm more? I’m very in my own head and I guess that makes it hard to tell from another person’s perspective if I like what’s happening or not.
    My husband and I are in our early 30’s and have a toddler so sexy time is not a regular thing with us. However, we never really got into a groove because I guess I never was good at giving off the right signals. I’m very submissive and often talk myself out of making moves on him because I’m afraid of rejection even after all our time together. It’s just something I’ve always struggled with. I also have always been very sensitive to the touch, which often causes me to tense up right before penetration in anticipation of pain or discomfort. It isn’t as bad as it was when I started having sex, but it does still occasionally happen even with just one finger.
    I’ve never been molested or anything. I don’t know why I have such a hard time relaxing and enjoying myself. At first, I thought I was too tight. I went to my college health center and was told to insert tampons to get used to having something inside me even when I didn’t have my period. This was obviously not helpful and pretty painful. I later asked a Gyn who told me I was not too tight and that it would get easier the more I practiced. Over the years, I’ve learned to take deep breaths and to start slowly, but I have to make a conscious effort to do those things, which takes me out of the moment.
    I’m sorry for the long email. Do you have any suggestions for me? Thank you so much for your time! I love your show!

  9. Hi Sandra,

    Discovered your podcast recently and you definitely have some interesting stuff out there. Very entertaining. I am part of a group of aspiring health care professionals (basically a bunch of premed nerds) ranging from high school to post college age and we are to develop a community health project wi thin 6 weeks. My group (mostly female) wants to tackle teen pregnancy awareness; I modified the idea to target both male and female youth (middle to high school) and to be essentially sexual education introducing new topics such as identifying pregnancy emergencies, imminent signs of pregnancy, cervical cancer vacs aside from all the other general stuff. Since you play an active role improving communication with respect to sexuality I wanted to hear your thoughts on what’s missing from sex ed or what you feel would be valuable information for these age groups to know?

    I would love to hear you’re opinion and look forward to hearing from you.

    Thank you for reading!

    All the best


  10. I am looking for a sex class for my friend and her husband. I said I would host a sex party at my house with all my friends and their loved ones! We live in Orange County!!!

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